You be the judge: should my partner dial down the heat when he cooks?

Rhonda believes Ned ruins woks. He reckons he has famous chefs on his side. You decide whose argument is in flames

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He whacks the heat right up, which stains our wok and makes it really hard to wash up

The person doing the cooking is in charge of the temperature – plus a wok is supposed to blacken