Who Is Harry Shum Jr.'s Wife? He's Been With Shelby Rabara for Nearly 20 Years!

Getty Harry Shum Jr. is heading to the ballroom for Dancing With the Stars Season 35, and fans might be curious to know more about his longtime love! The 44-year-old Grey's Anatomy and Glee actor will compete alongside pro partner Jenna Johnson when the new season premieres on Tuesday (September 15). While Harry has been part of some fan-favorite romantic storylines on television, he's been in a long-lasting relationship in real life as well. The actor has been with his wife Shelby Rabara for nearly 20 years, and they celebrated their 10th wedding anniversary in November 2025. Who Is Harry . . .