My Clitoris Ghosted Me After Breast Cancer - Here's How I Found Pleasure Again

There's never a good time to get breast cancer, but my 2001 diagnosis came during a life stage that was hardly ideal. I was 28 at the time and a second-year ob-gyn resident, newly married to my college sweetheart. Life was busy, but going great - until it wasn't. My diagnosis was a shock. I had felt a breast lump myself, but I originally dismissed it because I thought I was too young for breast cancer. Even my fellow physicians thought the same thing. But a few months later, my mom was diagnosed with late-stage ovarian cancer and died soon after. At her funeral, I thought, "Maybe I should get . . .