Jennifer Garner Shows Ben Affleck EXACTLY Where She's At -- With Super Rare John Miller PDA Pics! Look!

We guess we finally know what's going on between Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner . . . nada! She made that clear with a pretty overt public statement! And not the kind with words! OK, to recap . . . Buzz about a possible SECOND Bennifer reconciliation has been at an all-time high the past week or so. A source said last week Ben "would love another chance" with the 13 Going On 30 star. And those pics came out in which he grabs Jen her tight as they share a laugh at son Samuel's paintball bday party. It looked pretty friendly - and had a lot of folks wondering . . . We heard Jen's current . . .